a couple months after losing my dad iwas in and out of sleep as usual suddenly new somone was in the bedroom sat straight up and looked to my left shoulder and there was a young man looked like an indian long black hair and big nose very dark eyes but very peaceful presence just stared at him for acouple of minutes then i lay down and slept til about 11.30 am following say woke up very relaxed and refreshed best nights sleep id had that was in 2003 will never forget his face and always wonder about him had another experience in car regarding abright light before an incident were i was very lucky dont know whats going on but both events quite reassuring